Female And Male Orgasm

A stable and holistic marriage, in which partners not only respect and love each other, but over the years do not stop seeing each other as an object of sexual desire - and there is an ideal relationship to strive for. Boredom, monotony and refusal to have sex on one side or the other become the reasons for quarrels, misunderstandings and cheating. Of course, the widespread sexual illiteracy, which led to mass abortions and a huge number of refusal children, gave way to sexual liberation and permissiveness, but many have not fully understood the nature of such a phenomenon as orgasm.

Male orgasm

The process of ejaculation is quite complicated, but has nothing to do with the male orgasm, except, perhaps, the time of the onset. Quite often, orgasm and ejaculation occur simultaneously or with a difference of a few seconds, but after all, a man's orgasm is the highest point of sexual pleasure, and many have mastered the technique of delaying ejaculation, that is, the so-called "dry" orgasm, during which the man's pelvic muscles are involuntarily tense. and there is a process similar in physiological characteristics to convulsions.

Orgasm in men cannot come from scratch, the excitement phase must necessarily pass - a complex process controlled by special parts of the brain. The cause of sexual arousal can be both tactile sensations (touches, kisses), and a glance, memories, tender words or the smell of a partner. The next stage to orgasm is the plateau phase, during which blood circulation and muscle tension increase, pulse, heart rate increase, and blood pressure rises. The greatest tension is observed in the head of the penis and in the testicles, they swell and can cause pain. Peak tension - orgasm - contraction of the pelvic muscles in duration is 4-6 seconds and can occur without ejaculation.

Usually, after orgasm, the man's body completely relaxes, for a few minutes, an erection and the possibility of arousal disappear. After some rest, the man is again able to go through all the phases to orgasm, which quite possibly will occur simultaneously with ejaculation.

Orgasm in women

Physiologically, the female orgasm is longer, more intense and more difficult than the male. If men only in some cases may not experience orgasm (even having ejaculation), then a woman does not reach orgasm every time she has sex. There are many reasons for this phenomenon. In a married bed, a woman can not always be distracted from thoughts about children, everyday problems. A common reason for the absence of a female orgasm is the haste and inept actions of the partner, the unwillingness to please the woman, as well as the simulation of orgasm, which is often used by women.

The female orgasm has several types, the most common being clitoral, vaginal and uterine orgasms. But, unfortunately, men often forget that any orgasm, especially a woman's, is a complex psychophysiological process, and physiology is in second place here. Of course, you can give a woman pleasure and satisfaction by mechanically performing the prescribed movements, but in this case the orgasm will be incomplete.

A common reason for the lack of a female orgasm is haste and inept actions of the partner

Strong relationships = quality orgasms

Only if the brain is connected to the processes of physiological satisfaction will you get that enchanting cocktail of emotional and physical sensations that brings pleasure. It is clear that in single sex with a fickle partner, thoughts are usually not only occupied with pleasure. Therefore, trusting and friendly relations in a married couple are much more "useful" for achieving mutual orgasm. The acuity and piquancy of sensations that occurs at the beginning of a relationship can be resumed by changing the place or time of sexual play. The ability to arouse a partner and respond sensitively to each other's mood, gratitude and praise after sex will become the key to a long and rich sex life, which is an integral part of the physical and emotional health of any person.

Author: Victoria N. (specially for Calorizator.ru)

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